Perezida Kagame yashimiye umukwe we, Bertrand Ndengeyingoma na Ange Kagame, nyuma yo kwibaruka ubuheta. Ni ubutumwa Umukuru w’Igihugu yashyize ku rukuta rwe rwa Twitter, abuherekeza ifoto y’umwuzukuru we ateruye uruhinja.
Ange Kagame na Ndengeyingoma bashyingiranywe muri Nyakanga 2019, maze ku wa 19 Nyakanga 2020 bibaruka umukobwa w’imfura, umwuzukuru wa mbere wa Perezida Kagame.
Ange Kagame yari aherutse gusangiza abandi babyeyi uko bakwita ku bana babo cyane mu myaka y’ubuto. Ni ubutumwa yanyujije mu mashusho yashyizwe hanze n’Ishami ry’Umuryango w’Abibumbye ryita ku Bana, Unicef, ishami ry’u Rwanda.
Ange Kagame yavuze ko imyaka ya mbere y’ubuzima bw’umwana ari ingenzi kuko ari yo igena imikurire ye.
Ati “Imyaka ya mbere y’ubuzima bw’umwana ni ingirakamaro kubera ko ibyo ahura na byo n’imibanire ye n’abandi bantu b’ingenzi kuri we, ari bimwe mu bigena imikurire y’ubwonko bwe.”
Yavuze ko ibi birenga gukura gusa, ahubwo bikagira n’ingaruka ku myigire y’umwana. Ati “Uyu musingi wo mu myaka ya mbere kandi ugira ingaruka ku buzima bw’umuntu bwose ari mu myigire, imigenzereze, imiterere ndetse n’ubuzima bwo mu mutwe.”
Mu gufasha abana mu bijyanye n’imikurire y’ubwonko bwabo, Ange Kagame yavuze ko ababyeyi bakwiye kugira umwanya wo gukina n’abana babo kandi bakamenya ko kubikora ari ngombwa.
Ati “Abana bahora bakina kandi bakigira mu mikino. Indi mibanire n’abandi ibafasha mu mikurire, ariko kamere y’umwana ni cyo gikorwa cy’ibanze, birumvikana ko niba umwana atabonye indyo yuzuye, cyangwa akaba adafite ubuzima, bizamugora gukina.”
“Umwana atangira gukina akivuka. Mu ntangiriro, impinja zivumbura ibigize ubuzima zikoresheje ingingo z’ibyiyumviro. Gukina bituma umwana abasha kwimenya, akamenya n’abandi. Nyuma, impinja zigenda zivumbura ibintu biri hafi yazo.”
Ikindi ngo gifasha umwana mu mikurire y’ubwonko bwe ni uko ababyeyi bamufasha binyuze mu cyitwa “kwigana”.
Ati “Icy’ingenzi ababyeyi bashobora gukora mu gufasha ubwonko bw’umwana gukura neza harimo kumenya umwana, kumusobanukirwa cyangwa gusobanukirwa ibyo akenera ndetse no kongera ubusabane bw’umwana nk’uko abahanga babyise ubusabane bwo kwiganana”.
Yuvuze ko kwigana ari nk’umukino. Akamaro k’ubwo busabane ni uko umwana agusekera, agakora ikimenyetso, noneho umubyeyi cyangwa se undi muntu mukuru umwegereye akamwigana akora ibyo umwana yatangiye akora.
Ati “Urugero, umwana uvugije urusaku, umubyeyi na we aramwigana. Umwana yatunga agatoki ku kintu, umubyeyi na we akareba aho umwana amweretse ndetse na we agatungayo urutoki. Aha ni ho bishingira ko mwese mujya muri icyo gikorwa icyarimwe.”
Yabwiye ababyeyi kandi ko kwiganana atari ibintu bihita byikora iyo ukibigerageza bwa mbere ariko yemeza ko uko ugenda ubikora, birushaho kuba byiza ku mpande zombi, ni ukuvuga ku mwana no ku mubyeyi.
Ange Kagame yavuze ko gukina bifasha umwana kuba yavumbura ibintu bishya kuko uko agenda akina ari nako agenda yiyubakamo ubushobozi bwo gusobanukirwa byinshi bishya.
